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Who pays for what?

Traditions vary. Clear conversations matter more.

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Old traditions about which family pays for what no longer fit most couples. Today many couples pay most costs themselves, with help from family if offered.

Talk about

  • What each family would like to contribute, if anything
  • Whether contributions come with expectations, like guest numbers
  • When the money will be available
  • What you'll do if plans change

A good rule

Only count family money once it's confirmed. Plan your budget around what you know you have.

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